Beyond Bruises: Understanding Intimate Partner Violence as a Liberty Crime
A liberty crime is an offense against a person's fundamental freedom and autonomy, and includes crimes such as kidnapping, false imprisonment, stalking, and trafficking. Liberty crimes are not defined by violence or physical injury; rather, the offense lies in the deprivation of liberty itself—the denial of a person's ability to move freely through the world and exercise self-determination.
Think about what we call kidnapping or false imprisonment—these are easily understood as liberty crimes because they deny someone their freedom of movement and autonomy. We don't require that a kidnapper physically assault a victim for it to be considered a serious crime—the deprivation of liberty itself is the harm. We understand intuitively that taking away someone's freedom is a profound violation of their human rights.
Intimate partner violence, and more specifically, psychological abuse, creates the same experience of being imprisoned—but it happens in the context of an established relationship, and this has allowed it to remain invisible to legal systems for far too long. Because this form of abuse operates through psychological domination rather than visible injuries, therapy for IPV becomes essential for helping survivors understand the impact of coercive control. An abuser doesn't need to lock their partner in a basement for the threshold of imprisonment to be met. Through a combination of intimidation, isolation, regulation, and exploitation, an abusive partner creates a psychological hostage-like situation where the partner is functionally not free, even if not physically confined.
Why the Most Harmful Abuse Leaves No Bruises
Historically, intimate partner violence has been viewed through an injury model that focused exclusively on visible physical harm: bruises, broken bones, or emergency room visits. Research over the past two decades has demonstrated that the most devastating impact of the abusive relationship often comes not from episodic physical violence, but from the systematic pattern of control that operates beneath the surface—and frequently within relationships where no physical violence occurs at all.
This pattern of abuse typically begins with seemingly benign requests from the abusive partner: "text me when you get to the restaurant" or "share your location with me so I know you're safe." Each individual demand may appear trivial, even caring, evidence of how much the abuser loves their partner. Over time, however, these requests evolve into non-negotiable requirements that are systematically designed to isolate the victim while establishing the abuser's dominance. These tactics form an interconnected web of control that operates continuously across every domain of the victim's life.
Redefining Intimate Partner Violence
By redefining intimate partner violence as a liberty crime, we fundamentally change how we respond to domestic abuse in the following ways:
It shifts the focus away from individual incidents and refocuses on identifying harmful patterns of engagement: Courts are now tasked with evaluating the cumulative effect of controlling behaviors over time, not just isolated acts of violence. Domestic violence is rarely a single incident—it's an ongoing pattern of coercion, intimidation, isolation, and control punctuated by episodes of physical violence. When courts focus solely on discrete violent incidents, they miss the broader context of terror and domination that defines the victim's lived experience. A single shove might seem minor in isolation, but when it's part of a pattern that has unfolded over months or years, the entire pattern of surveillance, threats, economic control, and degradation takes on an entirely different meaning.
It acknowledges the threat and damage psychological harm can cause: The primary injury in domestic violence isn't physical bruises—it's the destruction of autonomy, dignity, and selfhood. Survivors often describe feeling like they've lost their sense of self—that they can't think clearly or trust their own perceptions, resulting in an increased reliance on the abusive partner. By shifting our focus toward the impact of psychological harm, we validate what victims have always known—that the worst abuse often leaves no visible marks.
It explains why victims don't "just leave" the abusive relationship: One of the most damaging myths about domestic violence is that victims are free to leave at any time. Understanding the lasting effects of intimate partner violence reveals why this is false. Victims aren't simply choosing to stay—they're living under a regime of ongoing control that has stripped away their resources, support systems, decision-making capacity, and sometimes even the belief that they deserve better. They may be monitored, financially controlled, isolated from anyone who could help, and threatened with harm to themselves, their children, or their pets if they leave. The question isn't "why don't you leave?"—it's "how does the abuser make it impossible for their partner to leave?" Partner abuse explains the prison without bars that traps victims, and it requires that we stop blaming them for their own victimization.
It provides a legal framework for early and effective intervention: When we increase our understanding of the nuanced and complex nature of intimate partner violence, we gain a clearer understanding that relational abuse is far more than an anger management issue or “mutual conflict.” Only when intimate partner violence is understood as a liberty crime can we begin to craft legal remedies that accurately and effectively address the core problem.
It aligns intimate partner violence with other human rights violations: Domestic abuse shares essential features with other recognized human rights abuses: hostage-taking, kidnapping, stalking, harassment, torture, and false imprisonment. In each case, the victim's liberty is systematically constrained, their dignity violated, and their autonomy destroyed through ongoing tactics of control and intimidation. We already criminalize these behaviors in other contexts—a stranger who monitors someone's movements, controls their finances, isolates them from family or friends, and threatens them if they try to leave would be charged with serious crimes. Why should it be different when the perpetrator is an intimate partner? Recognizing the hallmark characteristic of intimate partner violence means extending the same human rights protections to domestic violence victims that we afford victims of other forms of captivity and control. It says: your freedom matters—especially in your own home.
Calling intimate partner violence a liberty crime isn't just semantic—it's about fundamentally reorienting how we understand and respond to relational abuse. It moves us away from the outdated domestic violence framework that focuses narrowly on physical incidents and toward a human rights framework that recognizes the ongoing deprivation of freedom, autonomy, and dignity. When we label the abuse for what it really is—a systematic attack on a person's fundamental liberty—we can finally respond to it with the seriousness it deserves. Because taking away someone's freedom, whether through physical confinement or psychological domination, is one of the gravest harms one human being can inflict on another.
A Path Forward to Reclaim Your Freedom
Therapy for intimate partner violence at Anchor Psychotherapy can be a crucial step in helping survivors regain their autonomy and rebuild a sense of safety and self-worth. Through therapy, survivors can process the psychological impact of coercive control, intimidation, and isolation, which often leave lasting effects that linger long after the relationship has ended.
As a therapist with expertise in this area, I work with clients to identify and break harmful relational patterns internalized during the abusive relationship, develop coping strategies for anxiety and trauma, and create a supportive environment where survivors feel validated, safe, and can feel seen. Whether someone is currently in an abusive relationship or the relationship has ended, therapy empowers individuals to understand the abuse they experienced, restore their independence, and begin to rebuild a life guided by their own choices rather than fear or control.
Intimate partner violence often operates as a liberty crime, eroding autonomy and leaving deep psychological scars that aren’t always visible. Therapy for IPV can help survivors identify and understand the patterns operating within an abusive relationship, process the trauma, and reclaim their freedom and sense of self. At Anchor Psychotherapy, Inc. we guide survivors in rebuilding their independence, restoring self-worth, and creating a life defined by safety and personal choice. Follow these three simple steps to get started:
Begin your journey toward safety and empowerment by seeking therapy for IPV.
Work with a supportive therapist who can help you feel centered while navigating the effects of abuse.
Learn to recognize patterns of coercive control, restore self-trust, and take steps toward a secure, independent future.
Additional Services Offered at Anchor Psychotherapy, Inc.
At Anchor Psychotherapy, I provide a full spectrum of mental health services designed to support individuals, couples, and families navigating complex relational and emotional challenges. Services include therapy for adults, children, teens, and LGBTQ+ clients, along with trauma-informed therapy, EMDR and AF-EMDR therapy, and Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy. I also offer co-parenting therapy, family reunification therapy, as well as specialized services such as binge eating therapy, bariatric evaluations, and expert testimony. Visit the blog for insights, tools, and reflections designed to help you strengthen relationships and foster meaningful, lasting healing. I support clients across California, New York, Washington, Texas, Arizona, Nevada, and New Jersey, with in-person sessions available in Pasadena, CA.
About the Author
Bren M. Chasse, LMFT, is a Pasadena-based marriage and family therapist who helps individuals and families navigate the lasting effects of generational trauma. As an EMDR-certified clinician with advanced training in Attachment-Focused EMDR (AF-EMDR) and recognized as an EMDRIA Approved Consultant, she integrates psychodynamic approaches with Internal Family Systems (IFS) to provide a thoughtful, in-depth path toward healing.
In addition to her work with trauma, Bren supports children and families facing high-conflict divorce and family court challenges. Her calm, steady guidance helps clients improve communication, restore connection, and find stability during difficult transitions.
